Hug the child more, and give them another kiss. Another writer of ours recently wrote about how spanking is not necessarily the right way to discipline a child. I am allowed to be feminine, I have had plenty of time to be with my children, I have had time to take care of myself and during the day hours I do many things I like after my chores are tended to. Nevertheless, in most marriages, its use is best reserved for resolving thorny, sometimes otherwise unresolvable, issues that threaten the stability of the relationship. When coupled with spanking, ridicule will turn a woman into a prostitute rather than a wife. When I have a bad attitude, I am hard to live with. Do I feel better afterwards?
King of the Hill Season 3
To teach Bobby and Luanne a lesson in playing pranks, Hank orders Bobby to marry Luanne after Bobby takes her birth control pills and replaces them with sweet tarts. Hank, Dale, and Boomhauer decide to watch Bill in case he threatens to commit suicide , but when Hank yells at him for being a burden, Bill's depression turns into delusion when he begins dressing in drag and impersonating his estranged wife, Lenore. Two good examples are my wife and late mother-in-law. This is especially true in areas where attitudes toward spanking are hostile. The other is deeper and more visceral. It also reinforces messages children receive about getting along and consequences.
The "Spank With Love" Approach Does Not Work
This mythology also produced a generation of disillusioned and disaffected children. Back then, because paddling was also frequently part of the initiation ritual, appropriate disciplining was to be expected. The heart of the issue is: Most of the time, she has to go back to the beginning. Do I feel better afterwards? Hug the child more, and give them another kiss. Few, if any, young women these days would dare admit to their mother, or anyone else for that matter, that they had been spanked by a boyfriend.
A great comment with lots of wisdom — a very, very astute observation! Slave mothers would say, a whipping from me is better than from the hands of an overseer. If you are mean to your sibling, you might have to help them with homework or clean their room. Relatively few members of the younger generations appreciate the paradigm shift following the Sexual Revolution. The very word "spank" exists because there is such a thing as a loving way to whop a child on his behind or his chunky thigh. When my sons were three and four years old, at their worst stages, drawing with orange crayons on the wall, they knew what was going to happen.